Imagination Uncovered

"You not ready yet I assume?"
"Well I'm ready if I meet someone"
"So what's the right person..."
"Well I don't know what the right person is which is my point. There is no way I can go out with someone for like a year and getting married to them"
"Eh? Meaning?"
"I need to spend a serious amount of time with them and know I like them pretty much straight away...none of your growing to love someone stuff. Meaning I'll meet someone when I do. And I'll know what feels right"
"Hmm...unique viewpoint"
"I don't think it is....people rant on about what their ideal is, how they want the other person to be etc...yeah sure you can have a general idea....but only when you meet someone do you know"
"I agree with that aspect of it but I totally believe in the growing to love someone thing. I think attarction plays a big part in it all- don't get me wrong, but with time, things can progress much further"
"Well real love grows I agree, it doesn't happen over night. But I need time to get that figured...I can't be like, yeah he's attractive and I get on with him lets get married. It all needs to be there if you know what I mean."
"Haha, i get it! You want a combination of instant gratification and strategic love! Awesome"